My Brand new chauffeur
The boss went out to plant corn yesterday and left Alan a stack 'o chores...go to Fort Plain Agway and get barn calcite. The cows are going in and out to pasture now. (You should have seen the rodeo the first day they went out...you simply wouldn't think that dairy cows could or would get up to such stuff. Made the PBR look tame. We don't want them to slip on the floor.) Then head up to the farm where we buy hay and get a load. Not any huge tasks, but a busy schedule just the same.
Anyhow, the kid asked me to ride along. There were any number of reasons why I should have stayed home. The house has been virtually entirely neglected the past few weeks while I have been helping with cows and playing in the garden. My beans need to be replanted as the first planting failed. Ditto potatoes. I could go on and on. But then, how many teen aged boys want their mother along when somebody turns them loose with a pick up truck and a tank of gas?
I climbed in, rolled down the window and away we went and it was so much fun. The sun was shining, it was just warm enough to feel like summer might be coming and the grass was green as Ireland. When we picked up the barn cal, Agway had some fat sassy marigolds for sale. I'd been wanting some for a certain flower bed so into the truck they went. Then there was the aquarium store in Canajoharie. (They have guppies you know.) The kid was delighted to stop in for me. Some women may consider diamonds a girl's best friend, but I am much more fond of sparkly little fish. We bought a pair with white shiny tails and a couple of black snaky patterned ones.
Then we headed off down the winding back roads to where we are buying hay from some friends. Everyone is planting corn apace and the fields look better tended than my living room rug, with the rows from the corn planter still stamped on the smoothly crumbled soil. Our friends live well back in the country, away from all the trains and the Interstate so it was sweetly quiet sitting in one of their back barn yards watching the swallows swoop by. (That is a small part of their place above...took the pictures out the truck window.) Alan hooked up the hay elevator and had the truck full in no time.
All too soon it was time to take our booty and head home. We spent the rest of the afternoon companionably working out in the yard....him tearing down the DR string trimmer that belonged to his grandma. Me planting marigolds and weeding. The dishes didn't get done. The lilac bushes didn't get planted. The DR still doesn't run. (Even after a new spark plug, a cleaned out fuel line, all kinds of priming and pumping and pulling on the starter cord.) Other than a stack of hay and a couple boxes of orange and yellow we didn't have much to show for how we spent our time when the boss came down (and of course HE got a third of the sixty-acre lot all planted.)
However, I couldn't have asked for a better day. The kid and I had a heck of a time...and all that other stuff can get done today....or maybe tomorrow.
***Not to mention, later on I ran in the house during milking to get some bread out to thaw and Liz was right smack in the middle of watching the Preakness. Got to see Big Brown romp as if he was out for a sleepy morning gallop. What a horse!
11 comments:
Good for you for going with Alan! I know when my kids want me to do something with them, that trumps everything else I could be doing.
Wonderful post! I love the words you use to describe the countryside - you give me great phrases to use mentally, like "still stamped on the smoothly crumbled soil."
At 22, my son still seems to enjoy having me as sidekick and co-conspirator, and I love it! Yup, we'll take these days while we can.
I wouldn't have turned down the trip either. Great post.
What a great day! While packing up some calcite and hauling back a million thousand grunts worth of hay seems like the short stack of chores, it's definitely necessary and certainly worthy of some sincere thanks at the end of the day. Added to that, the consideration to share his day with you with the sights and sounds is pretty darned remarkable in my book.
The whole deal here is that the Boss and the chauffer can now say how much they did during the day, and both look at you and ask what did you do today?? LOL. It won't happen but I couldn't help but feel that you were being set up. I hope it was your day off!!!
Stacy, it was really fun
NW, you have about the nicest kids around...I always liked being around them, because they are interesting thoughtful nice people.
Tipper, I was glad I went. Today turned out so rainy and nasty..
Steve, it was in fact my morning off..AND I made them cookies so...(butterscotch chip)
(and besides I did so work! I helped turn out cows and bedded cows and moved hay in the manger and limed stalls and helped put the cows back in and milked them and put up calf milk and set up the clean in place washer...and laundry and dogs and and and...lol)
Jeebus, I'm just gonna zip my lip.
Wowwwwwwwwwwww and this is NOT even a drama day? YIPES.
I enjoy reading about the relationship you and Alan continue to enjoy. Mother-son relationships are treated unfairly so often. It's great to find kids and moms who find their own own ways.
Steve, Ha! Just picking on you. Except for milking those are pretty much itty bitty jobs that take longer to type than to do. Setting up calf milk involves filling three one gallon Gatorade jugs with milk and putting them in the fridge...milking and bedding are a bit more, but it was indeed an easy and fun day. sorry about that.
Jan, I always wanted sons. Of course I ended up being lucky enough to get the greatest daughters you could find and we have a terrific relationship, but our boy and I have good times all the time too. He is going to make somebody a really fine husband and father some day I think
Jan, I forgot to say how nice it is to "see" you getting out and about again. I hope all has gone well and that you are feeling much better!
Cool driver!
What a great day and new fish too!
FC, we, or rather my brother, found a new fish store. They have really unique and colorful guppies!
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