35 years ago on this day I talked my brother into milking the cows for me at my job on a large dairy farm. He had gotten me the job in the first place when he went into the military and they needed someone to take his place, so he knew the ropes...first girl at the job btw, but it worked out all right.
He was the only one we told...besides two very dear friends who also knew what was up. Had to let him in on the deal to get him to milk as he wasn't home much in those days.
Went to a JP with our friends, and stood in his living room saying words that moved me nearly to tears. There was such a rightness. There were even unplanned flowers as our friends brought us some. They were nice.
Then they took us out for Chinese. I had never tasted it before, but it was the beginning of a long and enjoyable relationship. Too salty for me now and I miss it.
The nearly perfect (introvert-style) wedding was followed by that journey I mentioned.
There were kids and cows and amazing dogs and involvement in all sorts of organizations.
There was good and bad and heartbreak and joy.
It was the most amazing trip I have ever taken, like a spin on the world's highest, fastest roller coaster, with lots of good food and fun along the way.
I sure am glad I didn't miss the party.
Happy Anniversary boss, it's been quite a life.
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